tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10748138.post9127232353640496644..comments2023-11-05T05:12:49.180-07:00Comments on All's Fair in Love and War: Confuzzledalishka babushkahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07551508922255225943noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10748138.post-21200876680906016042012-01-11T09:01:03.191-07:002012-01-11T09:01:03.191-07:00http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/guest-voices/p...http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/guest-voices/post/hows-your-friendship-with-your-spouse/2012/01/09/gIQAX0I8nP_blog.htmlAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10748138.post-35768902684818541802012-01-10T10:16:40.593-07:002012-01-10T10:16:40.593-07:00I'm going to say what everyone else has said -...I'm going to say what everyone else has said - just give it some time. It's ok to feel like this. It won't always be wonderful, that's normal. And maybe you could have a talk with him... but that might be awkward.Maggie B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16034170924016899732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10748138.post-771975007525130332012-01-10T10:15:59.032-07:002012-01-10T10:15:59.032-07:00The only advice I can give you is to pray about it...The only advice I can give you is to pray about it. When my husband and I were dating, it was pretty fast and pretty easy. We didn't fight, I didn't have any weird hang ups about him (I was very young though), but he told me something about his past that made things very hard for me. The only thing I could do was pray. And not pray for a YES should I marry this guy, or a NO I should not. I just prayed that if it was wrong I would feel uneasy, and if it was right, I would feel fine. I felt fine, so we got married. :) 4 kids and 10 years later... we're still doing fine. Pray, you don't have to question the advice you get from prayer. :)Melindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11738664615930618450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10748138.post-26795937598858581832012-01-09T23:37:53.131-07:002012-01-09T23:37:53.131-07:00My piece of advice is something that my dad told m...My piece of advice is something that my dad told me. <br /><br />I was really mad at Jared one day. He had never made me cry that much. I was even to the point that I was going to break things off. <br /><br />Jared and I had planned that we were going to have a big talk and that day I went to the temple to think for a while. (this is why Oquirrh Mountain Temple is so special to me.) I knew when leaving that day that I was going to make it through this trial in our relationship.<br /><br />I talked to my dad about everything and he told me that no matter what relationship I was in, we would always see things differently. That is one reason why communication is so important.<br /><br />This piece of advice has helped many times in the entire time that we have been together. No one knows how many times I felt like if we broke up our engagement I wouldn't feel anything and would just move on with one of the million boys in Provo. However, Jared and I may think differently and we have different love languages, he is sweet and is going to take care of me for eternity.<br /><br />I'm not saying this will solve your situation. But it is something to think about.<br /><br />Oh, before I leave you alone. I have a better piece of advice. Jared's aunt told me to take every piece of advice with a grain of salt. The important thing is to listen to the spirit because Heavenly Father knows us better than we know ourselves.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10748138.post-44264529358771756912012-01-09T21:56:16.538-07:002012-01-09T21:56:16.538-07:00I think you're on the right track. Give it som...I think you're on the right track. Give it some time, and figure out what's going on in your head. But, don't beat yourself up over it, whatever you decide.Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10480712973194174171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10748138.post-9335502402004528192012-01-09T15:21:25.354-07:002012-01-09T15:21:25.354-07:00My only advice is give it time. I was madly in lov...My only advice is give it time. I was madly in love with Zach when we first started dating, and then I had this weird week when I was UBER annoyed with EVERYTHING. I thought it might be over. I went camping with Tyne to get away, and when I got back everything was back to normal. Obviously the stresses of life can affect a lot. Give it time. See how you feel when he gets back.Stacylynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02504200729642124815noreply@blogger.com